【EQ 加油站】親子好關係，就沒關係
「擁抱是健康的。它增進身體的免疫系統，保持更健康，療癒挫折，降低壓力，促進睡眠，引人振奮，恢復好精神，它沒有令人不愉快的副作用，所以，擁抱是一帖神蹟的藥劑。」——《心靈雞湯》引用的名言 / 「Hugging is healthy. It helps the body's immune system, it keeps you healthier, it cures depression, it reduces stress, it induces sleep, it is invigorating, it is rejuvenating, it has no unpleasant side effects, and hugging is nothing less than a miracle drug.」~As quoted in "Chicken Soup for the Soul"
華人對小嬰孩習慣抱抱或摸摸頭，但愈長大就愈來愈少，或視之為肉麻而避開。但願我們有正面的認知，實踐擁抱家人的好EQ，培養足夠的智慧來維持親子互動。
- If there is anything we wish to change in the child, we should first examine it and see whether it is not something that could be better changed in ourselves. ~Carl Jung, psychologist
若有任何事我們期望孩子改變的，應該先檢視一下，這件事是否我們自己改變會比較好。——榮格，心理學家
- Children have never been very good at listening to their elders, but they never failed to imitate. ~James Baldwin, US writer
孩子向來就不太擅長聽從長輩的話，但是他們從來不會錯過模仿。——包爾溫，美國作家
- Children don't realize their parent's love until they raise children of their own. ~Chinese proverb
養兒方知父母恩。——華人諺語
為父為母是崇高的天職呼召，不論是或不是基督徒，而家就是訓練的最佳（也是最難）場所。父母若有意教出好兒女，眼前就會出現一大堆功課。但好消息是保羅在提摩太後書三章十六節教導後輩提摩太說：「聖經都是上帝所默示的，於教訓、督責、使人歸正、教導人學義都是有益的。」意思是，聖經是「家家有本必唸的經」。
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